Did you book your very first escort meeting in Honolulu through listcrawler, but are unsure about what to expect? There is nothing to worry about. Trust us, you are not alone. Before we dive deeper, remember not to get stuck inside your head during the meeting thinking about dos and don’ts. Don’t force the conversation, and let it flow naturally. Also, don’t be anxious. The escorts on listcrawler are professionals; you just have to follow their lead.
To put your mind at ease, we will walk you through what typically transpires while meeting an escort.
Preparing for the date
Make sure both you and your place are tidy. No matter who you are meeting, this rule applies every time. Of course, you are indeed paying for the services, and you don’t have to ‘DO’ anything per se. That being said, ensuring you are well-groomed and the place or hotel room is clean before the meeting will only make the play session more fun.
If you booked a hotel, make sure to ask the staff for some extra towels. Both of you will probably need to clean up before and after the session.
During the date
You shouldn’t get down to business the moment the escort arrives, as it can seem downright rude and make them uncomfortable. Give them some time to get used to the place, and maybe show them around your house. Once they settle and both of you feel comfortable, you can proceed with the payment.
Here’s what you should not do:
- It’s best not to get handsy before the payment; they are professionals, so carrying out the transaction before the play session will put them more at ease.
- Also, instead of giving them a wad of cash, put the money inside an envelope.
Once all of that is done, the escort may prefer getting a shower. Meanwhile, you can set the mood with some music and candles.
It’s best to start with small talk if you still feel anxious. Getting to know each other helps with getting more intimate. If you are unsure about what to do, be open about it to the escort. It’s also best to discuss at the very outset about each other’s boundaries and what they are comfortable with.
Note that escorts at Ladys.one charge based on the services they provide. So, if there is something particular you are looking for, you can discuss it before the session.
Another important thing you must remember is that it’s okay if you do not get an erection right away. This happens a lot, and there is nothing to be embarrassed about. This generally happens due to anxiety about meeting an escort for the first time. The first time, everyone feels a little intimidated, and that’s absolutely fine.
The play-session doesn’t need to lead to intercourse. A good play session often only includes oral and hand jobs. As long as you are having fun during the play session, it’s all that matters.
You should also take into consideration the pleasure of the escort as well. Even though you are paying for the service, ensuring that the escort is also getting orgasms will ultimately turn up the heat even more. Be attentive to their verbal and non-verbal cues, and follow the professional’s lead.
Having safe sex and using protection during the play session is a non-negotiable. As professionals, the escort will make sure that both parties are on the same page. Under no circumstances can the clients push them to not use condoms.
If an escort feels uncomfortable with the whole situation, they have every right not to go through the rest of the date. Be careful not to make your escort date do anything they are not comfortable doing. If there is a case of stealthing or sexual assault, legal action will be taken against the person.
In this blog, we have listed some of the crucial things that we feel one needs to consider after setting up a date with an escort. Look at the meeting as any other date and go with the flow. Do not put more pressure on yourself than is necessary; be there just for the fun.